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Emotional Infidelity: A KEY Tactic to Save the Marriage

Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating. I hear often, “I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Infidelity Discovered? 10 Ways to Calm Your Powerful Feelings

When you find out about the affair, the first few hours, days and weeks can be emotionally wrenching to say the least. Or, if someone you deeply care about begins "pulling away" you may also experience intense feelings.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Cheating Spouse: 7 Legitimate Motives for Spying

Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Infidelity: How “My Marriage Made Me Do It” is a Cop-out

Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: “I have a lousy marriage. My marriage is dead. There is no intimacy, no sex, and no excitement. The love is gone. We’ve grown apart.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Extramarital Affairs: When Sexual Addiction and Infidelity Meet

One kind of extramarital affair revolves around sexual addiction. The partner involved in the affair, plain and simple, has a difficult time saying "NO." He/she may want to, but feels compelled to say "yes."People can’t say...
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Infidelity Excuse: I Fell Out of Love...and just love being in love

I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger.Usually one reports, “falling out of love” and is truly disturbed by this shift.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Adultery as Sexual Addiction: Should You Stay Married?

I outline 7 kinds of affairs in my E-book, "Break Free From the Affair." One affair, "I Can't Say NO!" is characterized by addictive tendencies.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

The Revenge Affair: Characteristics of the Adulterer

"I Want to Get Back at Him/Her" is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book. This is the "revenge affair." It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair.
Dr. Robert HuizengaSeptember 19, 2005

Finding Your Ideal Partner?

How would you describe the ideal girl of your dream? “Oh, she has got to be beautiful with a nice figure, having a sweet and sexy voice, cheerful, gentle, considerate, kind-hearted, understanding, independent, musically inclined, share a common...
Rick ValensSeptember 18, 2005

To Love or Not to Love?

Have you ever fallen in love with two different persons at the same time? Falling in love with two different persons whom both have the same feeling for you too? Well, there is actually nothing wrong with that.
Rick ValensSeptember 18, 2005